I have not written in 3 weeks. But I have still been on track taking care of myself.
I’ve lost 20 pounds and continue to track my food intake and energy output. I exercise in some way daily.
I talked to my doctor about soreness in my knee. An MRI revealed arthritis and a torn meniscus. I’m going to physical therapy to build the muscles and need to have surgery.
I’ve been applying for jobs. Lots of jobs. Any job and every job I’m remotely qualified for. I had a great interview 3 weeks ago and they even contacted me the next day to say they are interested in me, but I’ve heard nothing since. So I continue to look.
In the meantime I continue to show up for work and do what I have to do to avoid giving them any ammunition to get rid of me, because I know they really want to do that. They are hopeful that I’ll soon be gone too. Amazing, isn’t it? They are struggling to keep employees and are spending all this time and money to figure out why, while at the same time they are praying I will soon be gone. In their eyes, I am the problem. But they’ve said the same of every other seasoned employee that got fed up and walked out the door.
I’ve been on antidepressants for 6 weeks now and they’ve fully kicked in. I feel better and it shows.
I bought new clothes that are stylish and colorful. I have a new hairstyle. And I am taking care of my hands and feet including painting my toenails.
All of these things seem so normal, and yet only 2 months ago it seemed foreign to me to feel good or to take care of myself. In a way that’s sad. But in another, it’s joyous to see I finally am feeling better.
In my counseling session yesterday my therapist said I am resilient. I responded that I guess so, but she wouldn’t let it go. And she’s right. I am resilient. I am a survivor. No matter what, I will make it or go down trying. I’ve made it this far and I will keep on going. I am the tree who withstands all kinds of weather and continues to grow and thrive.